Three principles guide the diagnosis of DPD.
- Dependency, as noted, is not always characterized by passivity. Dependent patients may use active, dramatic self-presentation strategies—such as breakdown threats or parasuicide attempts—to protect themselves from being abandoned.4,8
- Self-reports do not always give a true picture. Because dependency may be viewed as a sign of weakness and immaturity, many adults—especially men—are reluctant to acknowledge dependent thoughts and feelings.12 Interviewing knowledgeable informants can be enlightening.
- Dependency’s severity varies over time and across situations. Depressive episodes are associated with temporary increases in self-reported dependency. Even modest mood changes can amplify dependency.13,14
Questionnaires do not allow you to probe and follow-up, but paper-and-pencil tools are relatively inexpensive and efficient. They also avoid reliability problems that can occur with structured interviews. The 2 self-report instruments used most often to diagnose DPD are:
Differential diagnosis
DPD must be distinguished from Axis I and II syndromes with often-overlapping symptoms and similar presentations. These include:
- mood disorders, panic disorder, agoraphobia, and dependency arising from one or more general medical conditions
- borderline personality disorder, histrionic personality disorder, and avoidant personality disorder.1
Axis II comorbidity patterns likely reflect the generalized, nonspecific nature of personality pathology and the fact that patients may show personality disorder symptoms in one or more diagnostic categories.
DPD Treatment
Dependency is associated with patient cooperativeness and conscientiousness.3,4,16,17 Compared with nondependent patients, those with dependent personalities:
- delay less time before seeking treatment for psychological or medical symptoms
- adhere more conscientiously to psychotherapeutic and psychotropic regimens
- miss fewer therapy sessions
- show higher rates of treatment completion in outpatient individual and group therapy.
Psychotherapy. Traditional psychotherapies—psychodynamic, cognitive, behavioral—modestly improve DPD symptoms.19 Most effective has been psychotherapy that combines various modalities.2,4,20 Five interventions (Table 3) have been shown to:
- help the patient and therapist identify aspects of the patient’s environment that propagate dependent behavior
- provide the patient with coping skills needed to more effectively control dependency-related impulses.
Table 3
5 useful psychotherapeutic methods for dependent patients
| Explore key relationships from the patient’s past that reinforced dependent behavior; determine if similar patterns occur in present relationships | 
| Examine his or her ‘helpless self-concept,’ dependency’s key cognitive component (Tip: Asking the patient to write a selfdescription can be useful) | 
| Make explicit any self-denigrating statements that propagate the patient’s feelings of helplessness and vulnerability; challenge these statements when appropriate | 
| Help the patient gain insight into the ways he or she expresses dependency needs in different situations (and more-flexible, adaptive ways he or she could express these needs) | 
| Use in-session role play and betweensessions homework to help the patient build coping skills that will enable him or her to function more autonomously | 
Limitations and caveats
Clinical work with DPD patients traditionally has focused on diminishing problematic dependency. Recent research suggests, however, that expressing dependency strivings in a flexible, situation-appropriate manner can strengthen interpersonal ties and facilitate adaptation and healthy psychological functioning.2,5 Thus, the most effective interventions emphasize replacing unhealthy, maladaptive dependency with flexible, adaptive dependency.
Beyond the strategies summarized in Table 3, several other considerations—such as setting limits—are important in managing DPD and in minimizing therapeutic obstacles and impasses.
Set firm limits on after-hours contact early in treatment. Unless you set firm limits at the outset of therapy, dependent patients tend to have a higher-than-average number of “pseudo-emergencies” and make frequent requests for between-sessions contact.
In inpatient settings, patients with DPD receive more consultations and psychotropic medications than do non-DPD patients with similar demographic and diagnostic profiles, and their treatment costs can become excessive.21
 
                              
                        