But perhaps the most common thread across all the tragic cases of self-destruction is hubris. As humans become rich, famous, or powerful, they gradually develop the fallacious belief that they can get away with anything because they have masses of fans and followers who “love them no matter what.” This dangerous “acquired narcissism” is an unfortunate byproduct of success. Humility is rare among celebrities and powerful leaders. Modest celebrities almost never fall from grace and are endowed with an innate antidote to self-aggrandizement. A few years ago, I wrote an editorial in Current Psychiatry titled “Should psychiatry list hubris in DSM-V?”2 While hubris is not regarded as a psychiatric disorder, it is certainly an affliction that often ends badly. The mental repercussions can include depression, anxiety, posttraumatic stress disorder, despair, and even falling on one’s sword. Hubris can be a fatal flaw with devastating consequences to one’s career. Perhaps those who aspire to become a celebrity should receive mentorship about hubris as a hazard of fame and fortune, when they are still in the “rising star” stage of their lives.
In contemporary society, with the era of social media and toxic political zeitgeist, there are many inadvertent “opportunities” to stumble and ruin one’s career by uttering an “unacceptable” word or dispatching an “offensive tweet” or posting a politically incorrect photo. And even if one is currently careful, there are now social media detectives and fact-finding “archeologists” who can excavate and disseminate the faux pas, peccadillos, or misdeeds from a prominent person’s immature youth, which will destroy a famous person overnight. That can be a nightmare for anyone who becomes a bona fide celebrity after years of working hard to get there.
High achievers: Beware!