The patient returned a few months later. His wife had found texts between him and his affair partner and told the patient that they had to enter into couples therapy or she was going to file for divorce. The patient told his physician that he had ended the extramarital relationship and was working on his marriage with a qualified marriage therapist; however, he felt lingering feelings of loss, discomfort in the workplace, and confusion about his choices. The physician was supportive and encouraged him to share these feelings, if possible, with an individual therapist or to find a friend who could listen while being supportive of his marriage. The physician also offered his services as a sounding board.
A year later, the patient had found another job and was still working on his marriage.
THE TAKEAWAY
This case underscores the importance of some basic health care tenets. It reminds us that maintaining patient confidentiality is paramount, and that nonjudgmental interviewing can help us to help our patients navigate challenging situations. The particulars of this case also highlight the importance of referring patients out for individual or marriage counseling and making a referral to a colleague when a situation makes us feel as if we are betraying a patient’s trust.
CORRESPONDENCE
David C. Slawson, MD, 2001 Vail Avenue, Suite 400B, Mercy Medical Plaza, Charlotte, NC 28207; david.slawson@atriumhealth.org